We are always the same age inside. ~Gertrude Stein
The husband of the driver in a crash that killed eight people, including herself, insists his wife was not drunk and high behind the wheel, despite overwhelming medical and forensic evidence.
“My heart is clear,” said Daniel Schuler. “She did not drink. She is not an alcoholic.”
Diane Schuler is blamed for killing her daughter, three nieces and three men in a head-on collision on the Taconic State Parkway in New York on July 26.
Daniel Schuler suggested his wife’s diabetes, a sudden stroke or a tooth abscess may have caused her to drive down the wrong way on the highway. But experts say it is possible that Diane Schuler hid her alcoholism from her husband and family.
“Any good addict, over time, becomes better and better at hiding and sneaking their use,” said Brenda Iliff, clinical director of the Hazelden Women’s Recovery Center in Center City, Minnesota. “What generally happens with addiction [is that] at some point somebody may say something, and people go into shame, they may pull it in and control it and keep it from other people.”
Alcoholism is on the rise, particularly among women. Five times the number of women will die of alcohol-related illnesses than of breast cancer in this country. And many of these women are keeping their drinking habit hidden from their loved ones.